When my little brother, Jeremy, was seven-years-old, he decided to open a donut shop in the back yard. He found scraps of wood and assembled something that looked like a two-foot wide woodworking fail on Pinterest. For several years, he insisted that he was going to finish his donut shop project. To this day, he will still maintain that he built it, but just hasn’t produced or sold any donuts. Yet.
When he was eighteen, Jeremy decided that he was going to join the military and I went with him to recruiters office to get more information. Unfortunately, he (like many of us in our family) probably enjoyed donuts a little too much and the recruiter told him he would need to lose about 40 pounds to “make weight” and qualify for enlistment.
Now, fast-forward sixteen years. Jeremy is 33, happily married with one son and another child planned for the future. He owns his own home, has a steady job at FedEx, and a wonderful family who supports him…including a know-it-all older sister. In 2014, my brother again brings up the fact that he’s always wanted to join the military. Moreover, when my grandfather was under hospice care the previous year, Jeremy had bonded with one of the male RNs and slowly began kicking around the idea of pursuing a career in the medical field.
We didn’t make much of his talk because we all remembered the donut shop dream. Plus, the guy was now 33 (the cutoff age for enlisting is 35) and almost 100 pounds overweight. But then he started working out and watching what he ate. He began hiking with friends on the weekends and took up running after work. His wife also adopted his healthier lifestyle and became pregnant with their second child. Surely, with two young children now at home, he wasn’t STILL considering this crazy military idea. Yet, apparently, we’d all underestimated his determination because on my 40th birthday trip, he announced to my entire family that he’d enlisted in the Army as a combat medic and was leaving for basic training the following month.
Last week, I attended his graduation at Fort Sill in Oklahoma. Just three months shy of his 35th birthday, Jeremy was older than any other soldier in his class and most of his drill sergeants. They’d nicknamed him “Grandpa,” but he was outperforming many of these eighteen and nineteen-year-old kids like a champ. He’d lost even more weight at boot camp and ranked 6th place overall in his platoon for ALL the PT requirements. I was amazed and impressed and, quite frankly, honored to call him my brother.
And after all he went through, I had a special treat waiting for him in the car after graduation ….
5 thoughts on “PFC DONUT”
thanks for the memories!
This mama is Army proud!
Love this story, Christy! Such determination, he is bound to succeed in his chosen road.
Such a wonderfully written story! He is an amazing man and he had equally wonderful family! Well done jeremy!
Thanks for sharing this wonderful story. You are amazing Jeremy.
Brought a tear to my eye. Jeremy is a hard-working, honest-to-goodness hero.